What does everyone think about the whole marriage thing? I'm getting married in september and trying to be as true to my feminist side as possible whilst still indulging some of my childhood dreams. Not sure what to do about coming in - is it ok to come in on your own or does that look wierd (dont want to be given away and boyfrind doesnt want to walk down the aisle with me like some of our friends did).
Also there is the whole argument that monogamy is a means of weakening and controlling women (not too sure on all of the details but I've heard it a few different places).
Are any of you married already or planning to be? What sort of stuff did you do or would you do on the day?